healing divides
starts with conversation.

Rapid Response Work

A disturbing number of people suggest the upcoming election cannot be trusted. Some even believe violence would be justified if the election doesn’t go the way they want. The U.S. is the oldest democratic republic in the world, but democracy can’t function when we are unable to talk through our differences. If the American experiment is to survive, we must begin the work of domestic peace building.

Living Room Conversations offers these resources to help you stay connected during a time when physical isolation is necessary for individual and community health. We hope they will help you connect with others and cope with the sense of loss many of us are feeling. Most of all, we hope to join with you in creating and maintaining relationships that generate understanding and enable collaborative problem-solving for our country and around the world.

The motto of Living Room Conversations is respect, relate, connect. We know that in the pursuit of racial equity, individual conversations are not the final stop in the journey. Conversations can help us better understand individual bias and racism, as well as consider how racism is part of our systems and institutions. We have created this resource page in response to increased demand and desire to have conversations about race.

What is a Living Room Conversation?

A Living Room Conversation is a simple way to heal divides.

It is a conversational model developed by dialogue experts in order to facilitate connection between people despite their differences, and even identify areas of common ground and shared understanding.

Within this model, we have developed over 100 conversation guides on all sorts of topics that can otherwise be tense to talk about with friends, strangers, and even loved ones of differing backgrounds and political persuasions. 

You can explore all of our current topics (we’re developing new ones all the time) and even join an upcoming online conversation event to experience it for yourself!

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What's New?

Our work bringing people together virtually for conversations and vital connection amid the Coronavirus pandemic was covered in the New York Times! 

From the article: ‘ “It’s a way of taking care of people,” Ms. Blades said. “Maybe you’re signing up for these conversations because you’re lonely, or maybe you’re hosting a conversation because you’re worried about someone in your network who’s isolated.” ‘

Explore the work of Living Room Conversations with communities of faith across the nation.

Trending Topics

Political ads and media are fanning our anxiety about the other side and threatening the very fabric of our communities. Can we engage with generosity and lead with our deepest values at this time of heightened political polarization? Can we be peace builders?

 Have you read the headline news about the election and found your blood pressure rise and your mood change? Do you find your inner peace shaken by the stress of America’s election season?

Upcoming Events

Sun 27


September 27 @ 12:00 pm - 1:30 pm PDT
Tue 29

Being White in the Anti-Racism Movement

September 29 @ 4:30 pm - 6:00 pm PDT
Wed 30
Wed 30


September 30 @ 5:00 pm - 6:30 pm PDT



What a Living Room Conversation looks like

Two conversation hosts with different viewpoints each invite one or two others to join together for structured conversation on a specific topic. (We have a lot of structured topic guides to choose from, or you can create your own).

The Conversation Agreements and structure help assure a good experience and allow participants to get to know each other.

Living Room Conversations can happen anywhere: our homes, coffee shops, conference spaces, churches, and more and more online via video chat. 

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Political Peace Building

A recent headline read “The Choice Between Trump and Biden is Increasingly a Choice Between Good and Evil.” Where can you possibly go from there?

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